| When most people think of swinging for | | | | don't have to be anything but |
| adults, they think of two couples | | | | open-minded. Many swingers are just |
| getting together for a series of sexual | | | | curious and want to try out something |
| adventures. And in many cases, this is | | | | new or watch their partner try out a |
| true, but if you're single, don't feel | | | | fantasy. That said, it's also fairly |
| left out. You can jump in as well. And | | | | reasonable to state how you feel up |
| there are plenty of single guys and gals | | | | front so that there's no confusion as to |
| who have gotten to fulfill their | | | | who is with who. |
| fantasies with a couple that was looking | | | | So, you don't have to be bisexual, but |
| for a single to add to the mix. | | | | being open beforehand and during the |
| There are no rules as to numbers in | | | | swinging experience might show you |
| swinging. Some like threesomes, and | | | | things that you may never have |
| others like more. How much can you | | | | considered. Many women find that they |
| handle? | | | | are more open to being with another |
| Why you might have trouble | | | | woman, than men are with other men. |
| A lot of men in particular are looking | | | | Where singles can go |
| to fulfill their fantasy of a threesome | | | | Look in personal ads or online for |
| with two attractive women. And they can | | | | couples that are looking for a single. |
| do so, but it's something that doesn't | | | | It's really that easy. Go to your local |
| happen all of the time. The biggest | | | | swinger club or to the nearest adult |
| problem with this scenario is that many | | | | video store for swinger publications. |
| of the men take it for granted that the | | | | The online swinging dating revolution |
| women are just nymphomaniacs that want | | | | has created a safe way to meet up with |
| to be pleasured and not treated well. | | | | others. You don't have to reveal |
| That's a great way to never have the | | | | anything personal until you find the |
| opportunity again. | | | | perfect couple, so you can carefully |
| This isn't just about your fantasy; this | | | | screen all of the potential play mates. |
| is about respecting the couple's wishes | | | | Keep your eyes open and you'll be able |
| as well. Being polite and up front about | | | | to find someone to help you with your |
| what you want from this swinging | | | | swinger fantasy. |
| experience will help to gauge if you | | | | In the meantime, think about why you |
| have met the right folks to have a good | | | | aren't actively in a relationship. If |
| time with. | | | | you're just looking for sex, swinging |
| The bisexuality question | | | | can do that, but it won't be anything |
| A lot of singles are concerned that they | | | | meaningful for you. And it's rather |
| have to be a bisexual in order to get | | | | selfish to only think of your self when |
| into swinging. It's an interesting | | | | the other people involved are hoping for |
| question. And it's one that really | | | | a memorable experience. |
| doesn't have a clear answer because you | | | | |