| Question:Hello, I am about three months
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| | sacredness. When we deny it, we create
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| away from taking my diploma exam and I
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| | and give in to the power and law of the
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| have found that, where I was once in a
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| | world, which is the egoic mind trance.The
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| position of confidence with my skills and
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| | mark of this easy way is not merely
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| optimistic about my college/course and
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| | thinking about virtuous ways. The mark is
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| hypnotherapy in general, the further
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| | the effort to cultivate a felt sense of
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| along I have come the less confident I
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| | light-heartedness, humility,
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| feel and the more I know I don't know!
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| | cheerfulness, and the capacity to feel
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| (if you get my drift!) I worry that as a
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| | deeply without shame, judgment, or
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| 'new' practitioner out there - I just
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| | avoidance.Comparing is the root of fear.
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| won't serve my clients well.
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| | --UpanishadsTo compare, you need an
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| I wonder if some of you who are so much
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| | other. Maintain the transparency of what
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| more experienced and at ease than I am
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| | seems to be other in the world. Reflect
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| ever felt the same way and if you did,
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| | on the Warrior's qualities of
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| how you dealt with the self-doubt.My
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| | clear-thinking and discrimination.
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| answer and the excerpt:This dilemma is a
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| | Humility (not humiliation) is the
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| really great gift to you. It gives you
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| | foundation of these qualities. Cultivate
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| the opportunity to resolve some very
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| | them continually, so you achieve a
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| common issues that your client's will
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| | habitual mode of self-correction, wake-up
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| have first hand. This will give you some
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| | calls, and deep releasing breaths as you
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| genuine empathy for them, and, sensing
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| | think about details of action.There are
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| that, they will be very receptive to your
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| | nuts-and-bolts details of action to be
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| guidance. If you relate to it as a
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| | performed. While you're doing them, your
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| learning experience, it will be a real
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| | inner state and view make all the
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| Godsend!First: disconnect your
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| | difference in the world. When you open to
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| Self-esteem from your estimation of your
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| | inner guidance and let a Higher Power
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| competency.
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| | take over, it doesn't mean you don't do
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| Second: Never put your Self-esteem at
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| | anything. It means you do the
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| the mercy of your evaluated competency.
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| | common-sense things without getting
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| Third: Practice having absolute
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| | caught by hope and fear, praise and
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| Self-esteem -- you are a human being like
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| | blame, good and bad, gain and loss;
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| the rest of us and have a right to exist
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| | because none of those standards are your
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| and contemplate the human dilemma with
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| | standards. They are fearful egoic
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| the rest of us. You are entitled to learn
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| | standards. Your standard is to honor,
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| from every life experience without giving
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| | impeccably, the sacredness of life
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| yourself belittling fearful suggestions
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| | through right action. You must find out
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| and without accepting belittling fearful
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| | what that means in an ever new and
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| suggestions from any quarter.
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| | expanding way, moment-by-moment,
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| Fourth: If you find you are not
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| | forever.Your work is not a survival issue
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| competent enough to serve your clients
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| | anymore; survival is a matter of faith.
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| (you will learn that from their feedback
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| | Your work, like everything else, is a way
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| - no need to criticize yourself),
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| | of celebrating and honoring life,
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| cheerfully note the areas where you are
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| | fearlessly.With this view, let us examine
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| lacking and get more training. No need to
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| | some of the common-sense, nuts-and-bolts
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| feel bad about yourself. No need to
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| | tips about starting and sustaining a
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| entertain fearful thinking.
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| | business.1. You need to know who you
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| Fifth: If studying and practicing until
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| | are.a. Recognize your areas of interest
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| you do have the needed competency prove
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| | and your strengths.b. Create a succinct,
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| unattractive to you, you can cheerfully
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| | conversational presentation, in 25 words
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| assume this is not the profession for you
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| | or less, describing your work. That way
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| and begin a new exploration to find your
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| | when you meet people and they ask what
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| true passion -- no harm, no foul, no
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| | you do, you won't find yourself saying,
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| shame.I recently had a psychiatrist take
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| | "Uhhhh...." Unless you want to.2. People
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| my hypnotherapy training. He shared that
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| | need to know you exist.a. Who are you?b.
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| in the course of the doctoral phase of
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| | What service do you offer?c. Why do
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| his work he stopped dreaming, lost weight
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| | people need it?d. Where are you?3.
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| and became extremely anxiety ridden. And
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| | Advertise. (However, keep in mind there
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| he had been in practice with clients for
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| | are people who make six figure incomes on
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| years since then, still anxiety ridden
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| | referrals alone. Maybe not at first.)a.
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| and unable to recapture his dream life. I
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| | Target your clientele.b. Utilize
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| feel outrage and sadness when I hear
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| | advertising that will reach your targeted
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| about toxic environments masquerading as
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| | clientele. Alternate news media or the
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| learning environments. Granted it could
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| | food co-op newsletter, for example, might
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| happen that a person could make a
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| | be most the most useful publications. If
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| learning environment into a toxic
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| | business people are your clientele,
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| environment by what they make of it in
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| | target local business news periodicals.
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| their own mind. In this particular case,
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| | Web presence is essential.c. Find as many
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| it was some of both at the very least.
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| | forms of free advertising as you can.i.
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| Let's make sure you don't make the same
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| | Give free talks at service
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| mistake with yours. Find some help from a
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| | organizations.ii. Radio or TV talk
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| good hypnotherapist near you. I work with
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| | shows.iii. Calendar listings are often
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| people all over the world by phone with
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| | free.iv. Press releases.v. Networks and
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| excellent results if you would like to
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| | support groups.d. Telephone book yellow
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| work with me.When you are ready, I hope
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| | pages.e. Flyers, brochures, and business
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| you will study with me. I have on-site
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| | cards.f. Put yourself in circulation. Go
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| and distance learning options.I am
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| | to meetings where your work may be of
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| including here an excerpt from my book,
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| | interest and benefit.g. Write articles
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| Finding True Magic, on creating and
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| | for local periodicals.h. Bulk mail.i.
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| maintaining a practice.Creating and
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| | Teach seminars and classes.j. Host a
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| Nurturing a Dynamic PracticeIt is very
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| | booth at appropriate fairs. Share
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| important to start with the right view,
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| | information, do demonstrations, offer
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| the right appreciation of context, and
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| | free sessions through a drawing. (A note
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| the right perspective when approaching
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| | about drawings: set a time limit on the
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| the business of therapy.As has been
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| | prize. The point is to get people to act.
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| emphasized in this book relative to
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| | Of course, all the losers are interested
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| therapy, there is a unifying ground to
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| | people who now are part of your mailing
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| the work that must be recognized and kept
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| | list.)4) What to charge?a. You must do
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| in awareness. An important sameness, the
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| | your own soul-searching about this. It is
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| egoic process, underlies and pervades all
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| | important that you can ask for
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| problematic states. This same egoic
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| | compensation without hesitation or shame.
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| process stands ready to infiltrate your
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| | The egoic mind can act this out
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| mental equilibrium when your focus turns
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| | convincingly, but there will be a
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| to livelihood. It is fine to have
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| | contraction within it, no matter how well
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| subpersonality departments that run
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| | disguised. Your approach should be more
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| different areas of your life, as long as
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| | genuine. This will necessitate not merely
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| they are fluid and transparent,
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| | deciding on a figure, but getting a
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| integrated, light, and joyful.When it
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| | clear, comprehensive grip on your
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| comes to livelihood, that is, survival
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| | relationship with money and time.b. Don't
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| issues, it is very easy for rigid,
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| | treat advertising like rent; treat it
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| fear-based, egoic thinking to take over.
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| | like an investment. Rent is something you
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| If there are hard-line divisions between
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| | pay because you need a place to live; you
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| parts-the therapy part and the business
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| | don't examine your return on the money
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| part-a Jekyll-and-Hyde personality shift
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| | spent. But with an investment, if it's
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| can arise. The hard-line and
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| | not giving you more than you put into it,
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| contradictions can go largely unnoticed
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| | you try something else. When you
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| by the therapist, due to our capacity to
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| | advertise, you have to be patient in an
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| negatively hallucinate shadow parts.It is
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| | appropriate way and give it a chance,
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| important always to remember that the
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| | just like an investment. Give anything
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| underlying principles we rely on in
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| | you try at least six months, perhaps a
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| therapy-the most basic and root reliance
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| | year.c. Here are some money books to
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| being an ever-expanding connection to the
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| | enrich your thinking. There are host of
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| inherently pure guidance of Self
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| | web-marketing books as well.i. Guerilla
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| Source-apply in everyday life, to us as
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| | Marketing, Levinsonii. The Unabashed Self
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| well as to our clients, even when it
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| | Promoter, Phil Lautiii. Money Is My
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| comes to money.As Dave Elman would say to
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| | Friend, Phil Lautiv. Marketing Without
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| a resistant client, "Some people are
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| | Advertising, Michael Phillips and Sally
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| willing to do it the easy way, and some
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| | Raspberryv. Seven Laws of Money, Michael
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| people want to do it the hard way."The
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| | Phillips and Sally Raspberry5. Establish
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| hard way is fear-based and survival
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| | a daily habit of meditation; do it for
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| driven/self reliant. The self here is the
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| | the sake of all beings if you must have a
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| fragmented, trance state self, the doer,
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| | goal. Meditate as an expression of faith,
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| who thinks "I have to do it right, work
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| | opening, humility, and gratitude, even if
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| hard (i.e.,contracted, no joy or
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| | you don't think or feel these things. It
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| lightness, no trust or faith), make a
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| | doesn't matter what you think. Just
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| competitive effort. It's all very well to
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| | meditate with this inner conviction no
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| open to inner guidance in hypnosis to
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| | matter what you think or feel.6. Become a
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| work on emotional issues, but this is
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| | mentor; ask someone to mentor you. This a
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| money we're talking about, and its every
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| | form of self-nurturing and guidance. It
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| man for himself!" The hard way includes
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| | will help you with your skills. It will
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| pride in doing and "helping" (also
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| | help you avoid the trap of becoming the
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| fear-based). Don't ever give something to
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| | dried-up kind of therapist who helps
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| a client; he must give it to himself. Can
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| | others as a way of avoiding his own
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| you let go of your accomplishments? Can
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| | problems. We all have blind spots, and we
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| you be invisible? Moreover, can you
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| | can forget the perspective and struggle
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| accept dishonor?If we you honest with
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| | of the client to trust, to become
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| yourself , you will notice this egoic
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| | vulnerable, to open. This practice will
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| urge coming up on a daily basis, every
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| | help your cultivation of humility. I
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| moment. Don't get moralistic about it, as
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| | personally am available for graduates in
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| in, "I shouldn't be thinking/feeling
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| | either capacity, on an individual or
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| this." That just buys into the egoic trip
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| | group basis, and I refer clients to those
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| and you go into denial, thus coming under
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| | so engaged.7. Go For It!Until one is
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| the complete control of that which you
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| | committedThere is always hesitancy, the
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| are denying: that you could have
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| | chance to draw back,Always
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| fear-based, money-grubbing thoughts. Let
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| | ineffectiveness.Concerning all acts of
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| egoic minding be; be nice to it; tickle
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| | initiative and creationThere is one
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| it; display it humorously; let it arise
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| | elementary Truth, the ignorance of which,
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| and fall. Don't act or react in
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| | kills countless ideas and splendid
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| relationship to it; instead, focus on the
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| | plans;That the moment one definitely
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| higher/deeper intent and open to that
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| | commits oneself,Then Providence moves,
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| guidance. Consider this an essential
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| | too.All sorts of things occur to help one
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| expression of generosity to yourself.This
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| | that would otherwise not have occurred.A
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| will help you stay tuned to the easy
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| | whole stream of events issues from the
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| way.The easy way is the way of faith, the
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| | decisionRaising in one's favor all manner
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| way of unwavering greater vision, even
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| | of unforeseen incidents and meetings and
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| when brushing your teeth or washing your
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| | material assistance whichNo man could
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| face. In the easy way, you always take
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| | have dreamed would have come his way.--
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| the first step first, the right step
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| | Excerpted from The Scottish Himalayan
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| first, the beginner's mind step first. It
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| | Expedition, by W.H. MurrayWhatever you
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| is the way of remembering the source of
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| | do, or dream you can do, do it.Boldness
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| formlessness, purity, and timelessness,
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| | has genius, power and magic in it.Begin
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| before entering into endeavors in the
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| | it now.-- GoetheYou may know of Goethe as
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| world of form and time. To accomplish
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| | one of the great writers of all time, but
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| this, it is necessary to understand how
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| | you may not realize he was an initiated
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| each moment is its own first step, how
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| | adept of esoteric spiritual teachings.
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| the formless pervades each moment of
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| | Take what he says, and Murray's eloquent
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| form; this makes guidance and support
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| | understanding of the same principles, as
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| abundantly ever present. This is a
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| | the words of a Magician who realized in
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| description of humility, as opposed to
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| | his own life the faith and synchronicity
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| the pride and fear of the Doer.- Do you
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| | of which he speaks.Goethe states a
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| recognize it? Are you willing to
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| | technical dynamic of the phenomenal
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| cultivate it?Going the easy way, there is
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| | world, which arises out of a deep
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| no competition, therefore no grievance.
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| | thoughtfulness. The point of this book is
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| There is no other because your
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| | to help you cultivate-for clients and for
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| relationship is with the flow of
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| | yourself-thoughtfulness, heartfulness,
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| interdependence with the universe, your
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| | soulfulness; not mere technical
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| synchronicity factor; not with the world
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| | competency. When you have it, cars going
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| of others, the world of hope and fear, as
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| | by, birds cooing, or the commotion of
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| constructed by the egoic mind of time and
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| | others won't be distracting. From what
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| poverty. Therapy, business, housework,
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| | can they distract you? From your
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| shopping: everything is inside the circle
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| | experience of being sacredly, gratefully,
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| of sacredness. Everything counts and is
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| | alive...moment-by-moment...now!
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| touched by the power and law of this
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