| Assess? The Sufis believe you must evaluate one's | | | | comfort and enjoyment in your body. Next comes |
| ability for knowledge. The Masons follow an initiatory | | | | your potential for creating life and its responsibility. |
| process towards truth. Oxford teaches a process to | | | | Once more you Toss the pacifier but keep the Teddy |
| evaluate ones learning style for linguistics to develop a | | | | bear. Always giving up good for better.One of the |
| style of interpreting a language to people so they may | | | | most important steps is learning Self reliance and |
| learn. But the Sufi's go far enough back to actual teach | | | | independence. With this you get to choose what rules |
| you how to learn, with always the knowledge that | | | | and morals are you parents or societies and which are |
| there is still is much more for them to teach.How is one | | | | greater truths endeavored by the Holy Spirit or the |
| to live by the golden rule if they did not learn how to | | | | collective unconsciousness. Jefferson's dilemma, he |
| develop self esteem for themselves? How do you | | | | wrote all men are created equal but kept black slaves |
| love another if you do not know how to love yourself? | | | | because of societies standards. But then bore many |
| How are you to answer someone when they ask you | | | | Africans as his own children. Abolitionists went against |
| what you want if no one ever taught you how to | | | | their parents and struggled for the realization of his |
| express your opinions openly? What some people | | | | words. Self rule, self retribution, and self redemption are |
| take for granted as common sense, brings them up | | | | very important to bring change in our lives. Also we |
| short trying to communicate with others. Before you | | | | must leave the world of the mother for that of the |
| teach you must gage ones readiness to learn. Most | | | | father.For only then may we confront our fathers and |
| collegiate school systems will not offer graduate | | | | take responsibility of our self's needs by gaining a |
| classes to undergrads for a reason. Another mistake | | | | trade or fixing society where it needs mending. To do |
| is to believe that something you learned as a child is so | | | | so we learn to be Self motivated. As well we temper |
| rudimentary that every one else must of learned these | | | | our sensual appetites but never deny them. Embrace |
| things as they learned to walk and talk. For you will be | | | | our animal nature but civilize it a bit. Then before we |
| mistaken.For not all parents know what to teach their | | | | find a healthy mate we must incorporate a healthy |
| children. Because silly, it has not been taught to them. | | | | sex opposite in your psyche and bring balance to our |
| So how would they be able to pass on what they do | | | | nature. Then it is for us to Create and teach our |
| not know. Or for that fact even know that one day | | | | children and community. This is the individualization |
| they must learn it themselves.So if I ask you to follow | | | | process, the philosopher's stone, the holy Grail.Stories |
| the Golden Rule, and you have been ignored all your | | | | from Star Wars with Luke confronting Darth Vader |
| life, you will in turn ignore me and expect no different. If | | | | and the empire to the Dorothy melting the witch to |
| no one ever gave you a hand up, you will never give a | | | | save Oz, these stories are about this important time |
| hand out to any one else.Most of the solid foundation | | | | and the lessons we must learn to become adults. |
| to access future knowledge is laid in your childhood | | | | Some of us are forty and still have not grown up. Any |
| years. What is everyday experiences becomes the | | | | stage of your development that is missed must be |
| norm. In these years is what is called the | | | | made up at some point.There was once this Drag |
| developmental matrixes. First you have comfort that is | | | | racer back in the fifties. He was the quickest thing in |
| started in the womb. At birth existence and separation | | | | the quarter mile straight away. Some corporate |
| is experienced. Soon afterwards instinctual thinking is | | | | sponsors thought he would do great in the big league |
| developed.In the first three years your sensual and | | | | on the circle tracks. So in his first Nascar race, as the |
| emotional thinking is sown. Followed by your logical | | | | checker flag fell, he was into his third curve. Miles |
| thinking from five to twelve. Your basic core | | | | ahead of the pack. He lapped them all ,three, four, no |
| personality is hammered out by four and it is soon | | | | five times before his car came to a dead stop. He just |
| socialized right after in school. In this socialization | | | | sat there dumbstruck as the others passed him three, |
| process the identity you gained at four is tempered by | | | | four, no five times. His problem was that no one told |
| society. What works stays, what does not is left | | | | him he had to take pit stops from time to time to fuel |
| behind for good for better. But it is precarious time, for | | | | up; never less change the tires or plugs. We get far in |
| what is beneficial may be given up due to pressure | | | | life and career and feel like this racer when it all starts |
| from your peers. It is the Nietzsche years, what does | | | | to crumble around us because we were not told |
| not kill you makes you stronger. Like why do we need | | | | something as stupid as to fuel up our cars. Some learn |
| an excuse to have children to have stuffed animals in | | | | that much and believe that is all and never learn to |
| the house.In olden days they would be made out of | | | | change their plugs or tires.Either like my Russian friend |
| wood and called idols and avatars. Granted you should | | | | we remove ourselves from our parents during our |
| not carry one around as a safety blanket. But ever | | | | teen years and loose what they have to offer to |
| wonder why we give a small bear effigy to our young | | | | teach us; or they do not know what it is they need to |
| children and rabbits at Easter? But pacifiers are right | | | | pass on to us. He thought his parents were to Russian |
| out, they screw up your teeth; what harm does the | | | | so he avoided them when he was a teen in America |
| teddy bear do? These are the years of | | | | during the cold war. Other parents abuse us in various |
| intra-dependce. Your ego is in part controlled by your | | | | ways in which their parents abused them. Some just |
| elders."You must walk before you run, for if not you | | | | never cut the strings and dictate our lives to us.In the |
| will be running all your life."Then comes puberty. In | | | | Rudolph Story, Herbie wanted to be a dentist and all |
| ancient societies we had initiation rights. Muslims had | | | | the other elves laughed at him. He was not given any |
| circumcision. Aborigines of Australia have scarification. | | | | reassurance from others and validation to his voice |
| The Catholics still slap their youth lightly on the cheek | | | | and aspirations. When a parent does this to their |
| during confirmation. We still have these rituals in the | | | | children, they limit their potential for success and |
| form of the police raiding and abusing teenagers hang | | | | happiness. A Doctor friend of mine had said that his |
| outs. Another method that still exist is the no | | | | colleagues who were forced into the profession by |
| skateboarding signs in our public thoroughfares. But the | | | | their parents collapse upon their deaths. The parents |
| worst is the sending of our youth to fight each other in | | | | die and it is now thirty years to late for these people |
| wars. These are acts by those who are getting too | | | | to think for themselves. That is why they picked the |
| old and infirm. These men did not follow their myths to | | | | mates that could order them around. If they married |
| open up society for the new to enter. Granted some | | | | the only person they could control, they are in real |
| kids need a little shock to be socialized into a society | | | | trouble. You can not lie to yourself forever.In some |
| where they respect others rights as well as their own. | | | | stories as Cinderella and the Wizard of Oz, the mother |
| But there was more important rites than these.In | | | | character gets split into two different people. What is |
| Paleolithic ages men worshiped in caves. Here the | | | | called the borderline mother is loving one minute and |
| youths were passed through narrow dark cramped | | | | without reason cruel the next. These mothers get split |
| tunnel like passages that had to be navigated on your | | | | in the fairy tales to illustrate the challenge children have |
| belly. These tunnels opened up onto large expansive | | | | to come to terms with this dichotomy in their mother. |
| caves that held the tribes secrets on what is | | | | There is the Fairy Godmother who nurtures them and |
| expected of every male in the tribe. Here the men | | | | often needs saving and then the evil witch or |
| germinated the seeds they were going to give birth to. | | | | Step-Mom that needs to be killed. Unfortunately the |
| For when the youth exited the caves, they were men | | | | myths up to today do not integrate the negative half |
| now. Women upon their menstruation just become | | | | into the good and bring peace to the whole. It is |
| women though. The Jews had a red tent in which the | | | | brought force and it is threatens so it fights to stay on |
| women would kibitz with each other. Here they would | | | | creating greater harm that only resurfaces time and |
| pass their secrets on to one another during the weeks | | | | time again.The Same is what happens for men when |
| of their menstrual flow. Native Americans would drop | | | | they kill the dragon or when Luke confronts Darth |
| a youth into a pit in the woods for a month or two | | | | Vader. Actually Darth saves Luke from destruction by |
| feeding them some bread and water every couple | | | | returning the Anakin half of his personality back in |
| days or so. Here the kids seen visions telling them | | | | control of his ego. The Father saves himself to save |
| what their new name was and what they were going | | | | his son. This is a story stemming from how it went |
| to do in the tribe for the rest of their life. Were they to | | | | wrong in the Garden of Eden, through the |
| be a hunter, medicine man, mule skinner, or | | | | Nibelungenlied to Tolkien, from Perceval to Star Wars. |
| leader?Along with these physical rites there was the | | | | It is the story called the Hero's adventure and is told by |
| subtle stories told around the campfires that had new | | | | what the Naskapi Indians call the Great Man or Jung |
| meaning every time at a different point in life they are | | | | calls the Two Million Year Old Man of the collective |
| heard. Most of them just did not tell some simple moral | | | | unconsciousness. These are stories written by people |
| tale as in Aesop fables, but had layers upon layers of | | | | who have been there and done it before. They |
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